Saturday, December 16, 2006

SEBS Online Forum: Hate Speech On Madhesi Issue


Most of the rant is plain hate speech from sickos who dare not put their real identities behind their diatribes. I have nothing to say in response except that, like Eminem said about his homophobic lyrics, if I am sick enough to think it, I am sick enough to say it.

The hate speech just goes on to prove my point that the anti-Madhesi prejudice is the fundamental social justice issue in Nepal. Everything else pales in comparison.

By the way, I did not bother to read through the filth. The subject line says it all.

As for the issues, I have discussed them all at length online, and do not feel the need to repeat myself.

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Topic: Sick of receiving Madhesi newsletter and Bhagat's blog shit
Sick of receiving Madhesi newsletter and Bhagat's blog shit
xdx 11/13/2006 8:15:28 PM EST
Is it just me or other sebser's email address is full of this crap.
I never subscribed his newsletters or his blogs, but every week i receive something from him.
I think he is misusing SEBS, and using the email adds listed on this site.

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Re: Sick of receiving Madhesi newsletter and Bhagat's blog shit
yes 11/13/2006 9:14:47 PM EST
same problem here... i have emailed him about it and he told me to 'unsubscribe' from his list.... which i'm not subscribed to in the first place. he uses email adds from sebsonline directory.

plus this is not the first time. bhagat bro... all the best with what you're doing but have some empathy towards fellow human beings man....

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Re: Sick of receiving Madhesi newsletter and Bhagat's blog shit
anonymous 11/13/2006 10:01:53 PM EST
Let me be anonymous out here.
Same thing has happened to me several times. I even unsubscribed it twice. Still, a couple of days ago, I received another subscription email saying Paramendra (with a different email id this time) has ......

What the ****...
I sent him an email....It is too much now. He has to stop that, else I will have to complain to the google group abuse centre.

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Re: Sick of receiving Madhesi newsletter and Bhagat's blog shit
pidit 11/13/2006 10:58:17 PM EST
That's exactly my problem. Bhagat is misusing the SEBS directory.

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Re: Sick of receiving Madhesi newsletter and Bhagat's blog shit
dhoka 11/13/2006 11:46:02 PM EST
i dont think nobody wastes time to read his email nontheless iam tirred of deleting his email twice in a day.his ideas really suck. pain in the butt!
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Re: Sick of receiving Madhesi newsletter and Bhagat's blog shit
Puskar 11/14/2006 6:45:28 AM EST
I receive P. Bhagat dai's blog very frequently too. Mostly I just delete them. But I enjoy reading some of
his catchy topics. If I dont like it, I dont mind just couple of mouse clicks and deleting them.

I found it really interesting when Bhagat dai thinks that Prachanda wants to be the President of Nepal.
I do not agree with that. I believe that Girirja is corrupt but the guy is shrewd and not dumb. But
the way he puts Girija and Prachanda..I think it would be much bettter if he could express things
more politically correct. same thing when he talks on madeshi and Phadi issue..

hey i am a pahadi by birth and I definoitely accept that there is discrimination against madeshi..ad I dig
bhagat dai is doing there
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Re: Sick of receiving Madhesi newsletter and Bhagat's blog shit
reel 11/14/2006 9:48:32 AM EST
Granted, people may find Mr. Bhagat's writings interesting or at least thought provoking. That is not the issue here. There is no excuse for sending people bulk emails without their explicit permission, no matter how great the content is. Somebody from SEBS-NA should ask Mr. Bhagat to cease his spamming methods if indeed he just spidered people's emails from the SEBS directory.

It is clear his intent is not just to share his writings, evidenced by the number of banner ads littering his blog, not to mention the Donation button.

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Yubraj, General Secretary, SEBS-North America 11/14/2006 10:05:48 AM EST
I have notified Paramendra dai of this, requesting him to take off from his mailing list all email addresses he has added from the SEBS directory. I will let everyone here know when I hear back. Thanks for bringing this to our attention. I honestly hope this does not discourage others from updating their profiles. Let's work together to keep the profiles updated -- we will do everything possible to prevent misuse.
Yubraj
General Secretary, SEBS-North America
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Re: Sick of receiving Madhesi newsletter and Bhagat's blog shit
Paramendra 11/14/2006 3:30:25 PM EST
My DFN Blog mailing list sends out 1-2 emails a month. Each such email has a footer that gives you a clear instruction to unsubscribe if you might so wish.

It so happens to be one of the largest Google groups at Google Groups, period.

This whining is so unnecessary. Takes less time to unsubscribe. I doubt I will visit this thread again.

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Re: Sick of receiving Madhesi newsletter and Bhagat's blog shit
yagya 11/14/2006 5:04:47 PM EST

Quote: Originally posted by yagya

Paramendra Dai,
I personally do not have problem with couple of additional junk mails, but after reading your comment on a genuine problem I am forced to say that you are trying to ignore the real issue here. I do not believe that you have failed to understand the real concern raised here. I think you are too smart for that. The issue here is not about how big your group is, what the frequency of your e-mail is or even what inconvenience the unfortunate receiver has, but after your reply I am convinced that you misused the sebsonline e-mail directory and now you are refusing to either accept the mistake or fix the problem.
I hope you will realize that the directory serves greater purpose most of the time. For somebody like me trying to come up with batch profiles or somebody trying to locate a long lost friend the directory is an essential tool. If members start misusing it people will either delete their profiles or stop updating them.
This website has reached the present status due to priceless efforts of many many individuals over the years and I would hate to see it reduced down to a "gafaadi akhaadaa." I hope you will be more considerate.
Yagya N Regmi
PS: I hope SEBS-NA will persue the issue before it's too late.


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Re: Sick of receiving Madhesi newsletter and Bhagat's blog shit
anonymous 11/14/2006 5:15:04 PM EST
Paramendra dai,
I had unsubscribed on July 18,2006 but you added me again with your different email id recently. Check the General pictures for the proof...I have uploaded the screen prints.
So, you want to leave us to unsubscribe everytime you add us?

Look at your attitude...it is you who is misusing the email ids and rather than feeling sorry for that, you think it is our stupidity that we are complaining here...Why do you add people when they don't want it? For me, this is probably the third time I have unsubscribed, I happened to delete the first one but I had saved the rest...

So, please, please, leave the people alone...

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Private information ko misuse
500B 11/14/2006 6:04:47 PM EST
I think Parmendra dai is missing the point here. You have no right, even as a fellow SEBS member, to misuse the information that is available to SEBS as an entity.

SEBS has had a lengthy issue with publication of member information in its directory. Generally speaking, the practice of making public privileged or confidential information is a risky process. It is an act that requires constant and careful vigilance. In case of SEBS or any other member oganization, it is a catch-22. Networking, especially accross borders, cannot be sustained without some sort of open-access to membership. SEBS is a strong entity today because of strong networking ties amongst its members. On the other hand, there are people who were hellbent on utilizing any and every piece of information for commercial or private gains. Marriage proposals, airline tickets, Thamel.com offers, lewd and obscene remarks, personal attacks-yes, we have seen them all. What we have realized is that when it comes to electronic information, it is even a greater nightmare because of the ease at which information can be accessed and misused.

During the inception of the directory there were measurable glitches, but nothing catastrophic. It all happened because SEBS failed to implement a rigorous, standardized protocol, whereby the the privacy of its members would not be compromised under any circumstance. It was only after several iterations that this practice was perfected. But since every organization goes through the motions, so to speak, we should feel fortunate that these glitches were quickly ironed out.

But nonetheless, when it comes to preserving confidential information, SEBS is still heavily dependent on one key assumption and that is the good-citizenry of its members. Be it in the forums, links, or travel-help pages, it is assumed that the members will behave in democratic manner while posting and accessing privileged information (with a small price to pay by logging in). Basically, the microcosm of SEBS Online is parallel to a free & functional society. Trust and code of law are the pillars of this microcosm.

But Paramendra dai, your use of privileged information, without prior consent of fellow members, violates that code. It is an impermissible use of information that was not available to begin with-especially in the light of the rauchy ideas that your DFN subscribes to.

As an ordinary member, I am left wondering why SEBS allowed all of this to happen. I would be okay if SEBS would put up a DFN Banner or even dedicate a forum for Parmendra's cause in its website. After all, SEBS should stand up for its members, especially given the fact that Parmendra's ideas, while self-serving at times, are meant for the betterment and recognition of one of the under-represented minorities in the Nepali populace. His mission is praiseworthy.

But the relentless and bullish bombardment of one's privacy is no way to achieve that feat.
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Re: Sick of receiving Madhesi newsletter and Bhagat's blog shit
pramendra is an ... 11/14/2006 6:38:08 PM EST
There are a lot of assholes but Pramendra is a distinct one. He openly admitted that he is the one committing all these crimes. Does SEBS have guts to restrict his membership to this site until he abides by its norms and rules.

HATE PRAMENDRA BHAGAT BULLSHIT!


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Re: Sick of receiving Madhesi newsletter and Bhagat's blog shit
two cents 11/15/2006 9:46:54 AM EST

Quote: Originally posted by Paramendra

My DFN Blog mailing list sends out 1-2 emails a month. Each such email has a footer that gives you a clear instruction to unsubscribe if you might so wish.

It so happens to be one of the largest Google groups at Google Groups, period.

This whining is so unnecessary. Takes less time to unsubscribe. I doubt I will visit this thread again.


Parmendra dai, congratulations. I had no idea that your blog happened to be one of the largest google groups. That is an achievement. I also appreciate that your emails contain clear instruction to unsubscribe if one might so wish.
I wonder if they have a prize for "size of the blog and clarity in terms of disengagement"...I will vote for you. Alas, you said you will not revisit the thread....
Oh, btw, for the rest of us, who do not like getting those emails:
Why is Google Groups sending me email? I never signed up for the service.
Google Groups allows group owners to directly add users as a convenient way of transferring members from other services. We don't intend this to be used to build lists for unsolicited email; we don't like spam, and using the "Add Members" feature in this way violates both the spirit of Google Groups and our official Terms of Service. To see our Terms of Service, click the link below. If you think a group owner is abusing this feature, please let us know about it by clicking the "contact us" link at the bottom of this page, then clicking "If you'd like to report abuse, please click here." On the report page, include the group's address, select "Other," and in the text field please include the words "The group owner added me without asking."
As, parmendra dai said, it is indeed very simple.
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Re: Sick of receiving Madhesi newsletter and Bhagat's blog shit
idea!!! 11/15/2006 12:56:37 PM EST
I have an idea!!!! bhagat dai is great and he should recieve more concern by the sebs members than any other members. we all should forward the message we recieve from him to his own address so that he can be the most messege receiver in the google network.
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Re: Sick of receiving Madhesi newsletter and Bhagat's blog shit
Ke 11/15/2006 12:57:04 PM EST
Yup, I agree.....that is a bullshit excuse from Paramendra dai.
I for one, don't find his 'publications' either thoughtful or engaging.
The fact that he does take initiative is a good thing, but this 'holier than thou' attitude is very put offing.
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Re: Sick of receiving Madhesi newsletter and Bhagat's blog shit
haha 11/15/2006 8:48:45 PM EST
hahah paramendra the sebs terrorist is here.... be afraid, very afraid. he'll smash the status quo... look at all these people shaken to the marrow... paramendara is going to restore order... a new world order is on the plates... paramendra will set things right.. yoo hooo... hahah whine all you want but bhagat is going to kick you. yaa hooo... hahah fear complacent email users... your days of peaceful mailing is over. terror alert code: orange.
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Re: Sick of receiving Madhesi newsletter and Bhagat's blog shit
pablum 11/16/2006 11:38:29 AM EST

Quote: Originally posted by Paramendra

My DFN Blog mailing list sends out 1-2 emails a month. Each such email has a footer that gives you a clear instruction to unsubscribe if you might so wish.

It so happens to be one of the largest Google groups at Google Groups, period.

This whining is so unnecessary. Takes less time to unsubscribe. I doubt I will visit this thread again.



paramendra is becoming more of an arrogant airhead day by day. you'd hate to insult him personally, but his remarks leave no other choice.

1. it doesn't matter how many emails you send out a month - 1 or 100.
2. it doesn't matter that the email has an unsubscribe button.
3. it doesn't matter that it happens to be one of the largest google groups (which comes as no surprise since the list probably includes more than a few annoyed recipients).

all those things don't matter because sending bulk emails out without consent is called SPAM, and that is what you do.

that you label our genuine privacy concerns as whining shows your arrogance and disregard for others.

that is why i have no qualms about reporting you to google for abuse.

to others, if you keep receiving unwanted emails from paramendra (now that he has been told to stop), i suggest you do the same.

http://groups.google.com/groups/abuse
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Re: Sick of receiving Madhesi newsletter and Bhagat's blog shit
what? 11/16/2006 8:34:24 PM EST
bhagat bro, is this the kind of attitude we should expect from you should you ever obtain a position of authority in nepal? i am not impressed!
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Re: Sick of receiving Madhesi newsletter and Bhagat's blog shit
gambler 11/16/2006 9:21:46 PM EST
is anybody willing to bet against me that paramendra bhagat doesn't get the point and instead starts to blame the sebs 'pahadis' for ganging up against him and his madhesi issues?
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migrated 11/17/2006 1:32:35 AM EST
it is enough guys. i think we are not talking about his ideology but his misuse of sebs directory.
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Re: Sick of receiving Madhesi newsletter and Bhagat's blog shit
nylon 11/17/2006 1:34:02 AM EST
now he will come up with another article saying he is the most discussed guy at sebsonline...another accomplishment...hehe
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tee 11/17/2006 1:49:57 AM EST
now where did santosh munna come from? what's this about..... ?? hope you can explain it or don't write stupid stuff.
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madhise 11/17/2006 8:05:23 PM EST
I just received an e-mail from bhagat again. jati bhane pani lagdaina murkha lai. sebs ma koi hacker chaina bhagat ko e-mail hack garna lai
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NA 11/17/2006 9:30:49 PM EST

Quote: Originally posted by Paramendra

My DFN Blog mailing list sends out 1-2 emails a month. Each such email has a footer that gives you a clear instruction to unsubscribe if you might so wish.

It so happens to be one of the largest Google groups at Google Groups, period.

This whining is so unnecessary. Takes less time to unsubscribe. I doubt I will visit this thread again.


PARAMENDRA!
You used the email address at your will and never asked us to subscribe to your DFN blog. Now you are telling us to unsubscribe. That sort of logic doesnot work and surely it tells a lot about you as a person . If we had previously accepted some terms and conditiions, then it makes sense we have to unsubscribe ourselves. It might take just seconds to unsubscribe but, you sould do it yourself as you were the one to subscribe these addresses to your blog. It cannot be like - "I will do whatever I like and if anythig goes wrong, you take the blame"
Just stop it!
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Re: Sick of receiving Madhesi newsletter and Bhagat's blog shit
curious 11/18/2006 11:17:24 AM EST
I totally agree that what Paramendra did is morally wrong and his attitude is also not helping much. But, it might help to keep things in perspective. Though I hardly read his blogs, I do not mind deleting them largely because they are not many (one to two a month) and that I receive lot of junk mails from places I did not give my e-mail address to!
My main point here is that we have not yet reached a point where we need to take a harsher measure (like not including e-mail address in the directory) as the benefits clearly outweigh the cost (at least so far!).
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What???? 11/18/2006 12:18:53 PM EST
There is nothing legally wrong with parammendra sending emails as long as he give you
option to un-subscribe.

I get irriatetd with parammendra's blog but no complain. he has done nothing wrong by sending it
get a life guys ..just send it to junk folder or whatever





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Re: Sick of receiving Madhesi newsletter and Bhagat's blog shit
me2 11/18/2006 10:59:44 PM EST
Paramendra is not going to buzz, even if he is wrong. Its his attitude.

I believe that most of us get his emails. we are definitely annoyed.
So, lets send some forwarded emails everyday to his account. May be that will make him respond to our concern.
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None 11/19/2006 4:23:34 AM EST
What is the use of having your email address on the directory? Is it really only for a few selective sebsers whom you think of as friends or with whom you seem to think alike or to get some useless piece of information, like some one died, or something happened to someone? They're all the same. Parmander's appeals and Hemender's death are pretty much the same to me . I don't think it is really appropriate to bitch at Rajan (assuming he's the still the network administrator or editor or whatever) or Parmendra for sending out emails. All they're doing is sharing what they think is important info and news that affects people besides themselves. Why all the big fuss? This is a small ass forum for SEBS with a readership of couple of thousand people at most, but the fucking cream of Nepalese students are too damn lazy to filter the information that's thrown at them and are bitching about getting two emails a month when they're junk folder as well as inbox are inundated with viagra ads and spams about horny junkies.

Please, if you don't want emails coming to you from sebs members or are too lazy to unsubscribe. Don't give it to sebs.

I don't really care how many or which sebs dies, its bad news and I don't want it. But how appropriate would it be for me to bitch at, slander, and criticize Rajan or Onta for emailing me news of sebser's death, and calling them death mongers? I know it's an extreme example and not exactly on the spot. But I hope you get my gist and shut the f up.
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pirate 11/19/2006 9:57:53 AM EST

None,
The issue here is not like as you potrayed. SEBS does not send out emails unless it is for the benefit of the organization and its networking. SEBS is an institution and it does have rights to reach out to its members as far as there aren't commercial ads propping up in your emails from SEBS.

Furthermore, SEBS doesn't even send out its newsletter to everyone. It only sends it to those who have subscribed to it. So, stop creating your own news on this.

In addition, the issue about Paramendra is serious and you seem to be one hell of a dumb guy who did not even bother to read all people have written here. Did you read one of the posts where the user unsubscribed to be subscribed again at a later date? This is definitely illegal and Paramendra doesn't even care about this. This is what annoys me the most....

PS: Check out the general pictures section for a proof of Paramendra adding one user again at a later date after he/she unsubscribed from his blog.


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What is the use of having your email address on the directory? Is it really only for a few selective sebsers whom you think of as friends or with whom you seem to think alike or to get some useless piece of information, like some one died, or something happened to someone? They're all the same. Parmander's appeals and Hemender's death are pretty much the same to me . I don't think it is really appropriate to bitch at Rajan (assuming he's the still the network administrator or editor or whatever) or Parmendra for sending out emails. All they're doing is sharing what they think is important info and news that affects people besides themselves. Why all the big fuss? This is a small ass forum for SEBS with a readership of couple of thousand people at most, but the fucking cream of Nepalese students are too damn lazy to filter the information that's thrown at them and are bitching about getting two emails a month when they're junk folder as well as inbox are inundated with viagra ads and spams about horny junkies.

Please, if you don't want emails coming to you from sebs members or are too lazy to unsubscribe. Don't give it to sebs.

I don't really care how many or which sebs dies, its bad news and I don't want it. But how appropriate would it be for me to bitch at, slander, and criticize Rajan or Onta for emailing me news of sebser's death, and calling them death mongers? I know it's an extreme example and not exactly on the spot. But I hope you get my gist and shut the f up.

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" " 11/20/2006 8:33:08 PM EST
your rejoinder is extreme. you ought to be clear in mind that sebs doesnt not serve as platform to sent "junks" as Parmendra does.i am "inundated with viagra ads and spams about horny junkies". so what?
damn it , i care to be informed if my fellow sebser is a victim of a mishap. you touch a moral line when you make an comparion betn the pramendra's blog and demise of a sebser.
objecton!

Quote: Originally posted by None

What is the use of having your email address on the directory? Is it really only for a few selective sebsers whom you think of as friends or with whom you seem to think alike or to get some useless piece of information, like some one died, or something happened to someone? They're all the same. Parmander's appeals and Hemender's death are pretty much the same to me . I don't think it is really appropriate to bitch at Rajan (assuming he's the still the network administrator or editor or whatever) or Parmendra for sending out emails. All they're doing is sharing what they think is important info and news that affects people besides themselves. Why all the big fuss? This is a small ass forum for SEBS with a readership of couple of thousand people at most, but the fucking cream of Nepalese students are too damn lazy to filter the information that's thrown at them and are bitching about getting two emails a month when they're junk folder as well as inbox are inundated with viagra ads and spams about horny junkies.

Please, if you don't want emails coming to you from sebs members or are too lazy to unsubscribe. Don't give it to sebs.

I don't really care how many or which sebs dies, its bad news and I don't want it. But how appropriate would it be for me to bitch at, slander, and criticize Rajan or Onta for emailing me news of sebser's death, and calling them death mongers? I know it's an extreme example and not exactly on the spot. But I hope you get my gist and shut the f up.


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Re: Sick of receiving Madhesi newsletter and Bhagat's blog shit
disgusted 11/21/2006 1:49:17 AM EST
What a b'shit - not even worth responding to.

Quote: Originally posted by None

What is the use of having your email address on the directory? Is it really only for a few selective sebsers whom you think of as friends or with whom you seem to think alike or to get some useless piece of information, like some one died, or something happened to someone? They're all the same. Parmander's appeals and Hemender's death are pretty much the same to me . I don't think it is really appropriate to bitch at Rajan (assuming he's the still the network administrator or editor or whatever) or Parmendra for sending out emails. All they're doing is sharing what they think is important info and news that affects people besides themselves. Why all the big fuss? This is a small ass forum for SEBS with a readership of couple of thousand people at most, but the fucking cream of Nepalese students are too damn lazy to filter the information that's thrown at them and are bitching about getting two emails a month when they're junk folder as well as inbox are inundated with viagra ads and spams about horny junkies.

Please, if you don't want emails coming to you from sebs members or are too lazy to unsubscribe. Don't give it to sebs.

I don't really care how many or which sebs dies, its bad news and I don't want it. But how appropriate would it be for me to bitch at, slander, and criticize Rajan or Onta for emailing me news of sebser's death, and calling them death mongers? I know it's an extreme example and not exactly on the spot. But I hope you get my gist and shut the f up.

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puskar 11/21/2006 6:39:16 AM EST
parmendra sent to both of mine gmail and hotmail addresses. I unscribed paramendra's blog on my hotmail account. It takes two clicks but it works..

i do not see why people are making big deal about paramendra's blog..just unsuscribe

i do not agree with everything paramendra says but I am proud that someone from sebs is very
proactive and raising different issues and thoughts in nepal..

actually I would recommend having a blog section for sebs member..instead of discouraging people
who have positive motives





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puskar 11/21/2006 6:40:42 AM EST
the personal attack against paramendra dai are million times worse and humiliating than than the blogs he sent
out...
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Re: Sick of receiving Madhesi newsletter and Bhagat's blog shit
11/21/2006 10:08:51 AM EST
nobody said that this person's blogs were bad or humiliating so of course the attacks are going to be worse and humiliating. paramendra sending out the blogs to people repeatedly IS horrible and humiliating, and he fails to show respect to the community that is sebsonline. Further, his actions call for a personal response because he is personally responsible for sending out the blogs to people who havent subscribed to them. He does not even care what SEbS members have to say but is only concerned with sending them out without permission.
That guy should be temporarily restricted from sebsonline, if not completely banned.

Quote: Originally posted by puskar

the personal attack against paramendra dai are million times worse and humiliating than than the blogs he sent
out...

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pirate 11/21/2006 10:48:24 AM EST

Puskar bro,

Had you seen the two screen prints I have uploaded in the general picture section, you wouldn't dare to make that statement. In fact, I have unsubscribed twice to be subscribed again at a later date. This is simply irresponsible and a blatant abuse of my email id.
I'd also disagree with your claim that he is proactive. I would rather call him a segregation specialist...trying to segregate Nepal from the US heartland.
He is a hypo...blogging from NY for the masses in Terai who probably don't even know about internet, let alone blogging...And having positive impacts???? If the educated and generally politically docile Sebsers cannot take his ideas, do you think Nepalese in general will agree to his dumb-founded ideas?

Never...so all I want is a paramendra-free email id of mine....


Quote: Originally posted by puskar



i do not see why people are making big deal about paramendra's blog..just unsuscribe


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200B 11/21/2006 1:32:24 PM EST
boy what a great examples of nepal's elite democratic process. I am for against hiding my email from the list. In various occasions have been contacted my friends unexpectedly becoz they found me in sebs directory. I am surprised by our SEBs NA bhais who are now trying to make an issue of something so mundane. This is what i call is lack of leadership. Instead of the organization putting up a notice against racial slurs that have been used against paramendra, now you want to censor the damn email???
I am on paramendra's list and I completely disagree with his thoughts but I enjoy reading his blogs. I find them much entertaining than some bullshit topics that gets discussed on this site. Guys give the guy a break. He is following his passion and very few of us has done what he has done. you dont want him to receive his email unsubscribe, if that does not work call him...the number is available in tel. directory than to mock him like you are doing.
SEBS NA please show a solid leadership around these types of issues.
PEACE!
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Caffeine 11/21/2006 2:20:35 PM EST
And here you go Mr 200B, attacking the SEBS leadership.
Where in this forum did you see racial slurs?
Like a lot of people in the forum, I do not agree with Parmendra. I was able to unsubscribe from his newsletter only after three tries. But I am not complaining. However, a fair number of people are not too happy about receiving his emails. They, like you, do not agree with his views. But they, unlike you, are probably not his classmates and do not give a rats ass about what he has to say in his blog or his emails. To continuously send people mass emails against their wish is morally wrong. He is MISUSING the SEBS directory. You say you enjoy getting unexpected emails from old friends. I too have been using the directory to lookup friends as long as it has been in existence. I do not want people to start withdrawing their information because of this "mundane" issue.

I think SEBS NA has shown solid leadership regarding this issue. Spamming and the abuse of the SEBS directory, be it by someone who is supposedly "following his passion" like Parmendra, or by anyone else, is unacceptable. And if the SEBS NA leadership is taking steps to curb that, then I applaud them for that.
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puskar 11/21/2006 2:25:37 PM EST
When you unsuscribe you have to do it twice. It will send you email and you have to confirm that
you really want to unsuscribe. I did that and went through fine

if paramendra wants to speak for the people of terai ....how would that be segregation? I am not a madeshi
myself but i have seen so much discrimation against madesi class in nepal.... well atleast people like
paramendra are starting to say things ...i know i am not ok with some of the thing he says..











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Puskar bro,

Had you seen the two screen prints I have uploaded in the general picture section, you wouldn't dare to make that statement. In fact, I have unsubscribed twice to be subscribed again at a later date. This is simply irresponsible and a blatant abuse of my email id.
I'd also disagree with your claim that he is proactive. I would rather call him a segregation specialist...trying to segregate Nepal from the US heartland.
He is a hypo...blogging from NY for the masses in Terai who probably don't even know about internet, let alone blogging...And having positive impacts???? If the educated and generally politically docile Sebsers cannot take his ideas, do you think Nepalese in general will agree to his dumb-founded ideas?

Never...so all I want is a paramendra-free email id of mine....


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i do not see why people are making big deal about paramendra's blog..just unsuscribe




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Re: Sick of receiving Madhesi newsletter and Bhagat's blog shit
me2 11/21/2006 6:00:13 PM EST
Thanks puskar. I did it.

But what if he adds me again into his mailing list?

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Re: Sick of receiving Madhesi newsletter and Bhagat's blog shit
jackal 11/21/2006 8:03:34 PM EST
paramendra dai has become a sebs celebrity now
he has become so famous

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xdx 11/23/2006 3:54:57 AM EST
I am pleased that SEBS is addressing the issue. Like some people pointed before, i unsuscribed to the sites, but it didnt stop me from receiving the emails. I even blocked the email address, but still received emails from some other email address. Hence, I was pissed and started the topic, as I believe that the information listed in the site should not be misused.
I still have my profile, and am not deleting it, as I want the people who want to contact me to have a way to reach me.
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madhesi shit
me 12/14/2006 10:18:56 PM EST
well is this madhesi nepal guy dhoti?
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puru 12/16/2006 8:33:54 AM EST
i am also sick of receivig this craps ..... they both shud be hanged till death.......... track him guys i will reap his ass off ....


In The News

Interim constitution a historic step forward, say leaders NepalNews "The interim constitution has effectively shifted all the privileges of the King to the Prime Minister. The King is totally powerless now." "Now the position of the monarchy is as good as suspended." Remaining silent on the position of the King, the 168-Article interim constitution has shifted all powers of the head of the state to the Prime Minister. ..... 205 will be elected by direct voting and 204 will be elected through proportional system ensuring quota for women, indigenous nationalities and religious groups, while 16 members will be nominated by the Prime Minister with the consent of the cabinet. Maoists discuss party strategies, interim statute The meeting also failed to finalise the list of persons to represent the party in the interim parliament and the government.

NSP (A) writes 'note of dissent' on draft of interim constitution

Nepal Sadbhawana Party (Anandi Devi), a partner in the seven-party alliance, has written 'note of dissent' on the draft of the interim constitution, saying that some of the clauses in the draft failed to address the needs and demands of Madhesi people.

The NSP (A) has said 205 election constituencies should be rearranged "on the basis of population and geographical and cultural similarity" and there should be two ballot papers, one for direct voting and the other for proportional election for 204 seats.

The draft finalised by the meeting of the top leaders on Saturday morning says the 205 election constituencies will remain as it is, while the debate over the type of ballot paper will be settled by the Election Commission with the consent of political parties.

The constituent assembly will have a total of 425 members including 16 members nominated by the Prime Minister.

The NSP (A) said the party had also demanded that the interim constitution should state Nepal as a 'democratic republic' after the state system goes through a restructuring process. The party, which has its support base in the Terai plains, also demanded guarantee of land reform.

These issues were ignored while finalising the draft of the interim constitution, according to the party.

Vice-chairman Bharat Bimal Yadav, who led the NSP team in the eight-party negotiations, wrote the 'note of dissent' as the top leaders came close to finalising the draft. Party leaders Hridayesh Tripathi and Rajendra Mahato had also joined the discussion. nepalnews.com mk Dec 16 06

Tuesday, December 12, 2006

Hisila Yami For President



On the first day of the first session of the constituent assembly, in June, Nepal is going to be declared a republic. On that same day, somebody is going to have to be declared president. I want that person to be a woman. I see three obvious candidates.

Hisila Yami, Chitralekha Yadav, Bidya Bhandari.

But why do I feel like the UML will not push Bidya and the Congress (D) will not push Chitralekha? Hisila Yami is not necessarily the obvious Maoist name. But she sure is the most senior female Maoist. And she is a Newar. That practically makes her a Janajati, I think. So having a Janajati woman up there is even more palatable than having just another Janajati.

The Suspicion Game And The Maoists

As long as the Maoists have come around to the idea of a multi-party framework, which they have, and as long as a Truth And Reconciliation Commission deals with the agony of the decade long civil war, I for one am prepared to treat the Maoists like a political party.

That Truth And Reconciliation Commission does not have to mean general amnesty. It might still be a good idea to bring to justice a few hundred from both armies for the most heinous of the human rights abuses during the civil war. But for the most part you are letting bygones be bygones as a price to be paid for permanent peace. A Truth And Reconciliation Commission is the country seeking counselling.

Gender, Ethnicity, Caste

The Maoists have already said more than 40% of their MPs in the interim parliament will be women. They are saying more than 80% will be Dalits and Janajati, at least 20% will be Dalit. I wish they said something similar for the Madhesi, as in 40% Madhesi.

Nepali Maoists, Chinese Communists

I envision a China that is a federal, multi-party democracy where the Chinese Communist Party is still the largest party. The Maoists in Nepal stand a good chance of exporting that vision into China itself.

Here Mao, getting back at you with a few revisions.

So the Nepali Maoists becoming a legitimate, peaceful political party in a multi-party framework has larger implications.

Not Worried

You can tell I am not worried the Maoists might emerge the largest party in Nepal. I would love to see Hisila Yami become Nepal's first president. Bill Clinton is not going to be First Lad because it is Obama not Hillary who is going to the White House, but Baburam Bhattarai is a lucky fellow, he is going to become First Lad.

Bidya Bhandari: Power Woman
Interim Speaker: Chitra Lekha Yadav

Article: Security Sector Reform In Nepal: The Role Of Civil Society by Karon Cochran-Budhathoki: USIPeace Briefing: US Institute Of Peace

On The Web

Hisila Yami - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
WEST PAPUA: We will be free! - NI 344 - View from the South
[PDF] Communist Party of Nepal (Maoist) – CPN (M)
Monthly Review November 2005 Parvati | People’s Power in Nepal
Naxal Revolution: Women and People's War in Nepal by Hisila Yami ...
Radio Australia - Connect Asia - NEPAL: Maoists fill power vacuum
Hisila Yami: Information from Answers.com
NPR : Nepal Maoist Leader: Women Driving Movement
LETTER TO THE EDITOR The Telegraph - Weekly (Nepal)
FreeNepal.org
Hisila Yami - Wikipedia
Naxal Revolution: Books
International Seminar on Nationality Question
Nepal Home Page Interactions
Help.com - hisila yami
Hisila Yami Wikipedia, Flickr, Delicious Bash at Bashr.com
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In The News

Deuba backs PM, reiterates arms mgmt before interim govt Kantipur
PM intensifies political discussions
All 70 weapon storage containers arrive
Robbers loot property worth Rs 1.5 million in the capital
Strike cripples life in 9 eastern districts A strike called by the Limbuwan Swayatta Sarokar Manch (LSSM) on Tuesday crippled life in nine districts east of Arun River. ..... the comprehensive national peace treaty between the seven-party alliance and the Communist Party of Nepal (Maoist) had ignored their demands to introduce a Limbuwan autonomous region ...... Mechi's Illam, Jhapa, Paanchthar, Taplejung and Koshi zone's Dhankuta, Morang, Sunsari, Sankhuwasabha and Terhathum .... Activists organized rallies and burnt tires on the roads, halting all traffic in the district headquarters. ..... businesses were forced to shut down no vehicles have been plying in Dhankuta- Dharan - Itahari road sections. ..... Demanding self-governance and autonomy prior to the elections to the constituent assembly, Limbuwan Swayatta Sarokar Manch, Sanghiya Limbuwan Rajya Parisar, Sanghiya Loktantrik Manch had jointly called for the strike.
Govt arrears soar to Rs 30 billion
MoLD, ILO to launch $3m project
PM's remarks create problems, says PFN
SPA-Maoist talks on interim statute on Wednesday
Army Welfare Fund transparent: NA

UML, PFN want interim constitution now NepalNews

Nepal to decide on interim constitution Times of India, India
Summit to be held Wednesday over Nepal's interim constitution People's Daily Online
Nepal running out of time for lasting peace Hindustan Times
Nepal calls on PM Kantipur Online
UN TAM meets NGOs in Nepal for child protection
People's Daily Online, China
Nepal Maoists fall sick as cold grips Himalayan nation
Zee News, India
Nepalese Maoists 'ill in camps' BBC News
'Maoists could reconsider interim government if situation changes' Gorkhapatra
Mahara Warns of Renewed Maoist Revolt Himalayan Times "The election to the constituent assembly will not be held by mid-June 2007 if the date for the same is not announced within Mangsir (mid-December)," said Mahara. ... "The ceasefire call will not be withdrawn even if the Maoists hit the streets against the conspiracies with their new strategies," said Mahara.
UN Technical Team Begins Groundwork for Arms Management in Nepal
Nepal human Rights News, Nepal
JTMM says ready for talks with Nepali govt People's Daily Online if the CPN withdraws its declaration of war against JTMM and makes public the status of its cadres disappeared by the CPN .... The CPN had declared war against JTMM five months ago after the two sides started attacking each other's cadres. ... The JTMM, an armed group, is active in some districts of southern Nepal and it has demanded a separate state for indigenous people of Southern Nepal among others and has been attacking on people migrated from hilly areas of the country. ... It has accused the CPN of murdering its politburo member Binaya Kumar Mahato as well as disappearing its district level cadres including Ugra Narayan Yadav and Pramod Yadav.
Monitoring of arms management pact starts in Nepal People's Daily Online
'Welfare fund of Nepal Army transparent'
Gorkhapatra, Nepal
Nepal Army Releases Audit of Welfare Fund OhmyNews International
Nepali army makes public its welfare fund for the first time People's Daily Online
Nepal army to be confined to barracks during polls Zee News
Nepal king's henchman gets royal snub
Telugu Portal, India Badri Prasad Mandal had split the Nepal Sadbhavana Party (NSP) four years ago to support King Gyanendra and formed the NSP-Mandal. On Monday, the veteran politician from the terai plains, who had been keeping a low profile since the king's fall, was stripped of party membership on the ground that he had damaged its democratic image. .... Along with Mandal, a legislator from the faction, Mrigendra Kumar Singh Yadav, too was stripped of party membership.


Koirala And Oli Doing Wrong By The Bhutan Democracy Movement

Tek Nath Rizal And The Bhutani Hostage Crisis

Both have come out repeating the Tek Nath Rizal idiotic stand that they want the Bhutani refugees back in Bhutan. That would be a great step, sure, but is that an option? Has that not been the demand for close to a decade now? That guy Jingme Singme is not about to budge. Face the reality, folks.

Nepal to seek India`s help in repatriation of Bhutan refugees
Zee News, India
Nepal gov't attaches high priority to Bhutanese refugee crisis Islamic Republic News Agency
'Govt for safe return of 100,000 Bhutanese Gorkhapatra
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